{"id":12648,"date":"2021-04-15T23:20:44","date_gmt":"2021-04-16T06:20:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotnessrater.com\/articles\/?p=12648"},"modified":"2021-04-15T23:20:44","modified_gmt":"2021-04-16T06:20:44","slug":"findom-stories-a-new-kind-of-submissiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotnessrater.com\/articles\/2021\/04\/15\/findom-stories-a-new-kind-of-submissiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"Findom Stories: A New Kind of Submissiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"

At base level, the psychology behind submissiveness is actually quite simple.\u00a0 For most people, everyday life means shouldering a whole world of responsibilities and constantly making difficult decisions. We\u2019re in control of our own destinies and we bear the brunt of the consequences we bring on ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hence, when given the opportunity to completely relinquish control and let others make decisions on our behalf, it can be extremely liberating. Hence, it\u2019s unsurprising that for many, this feeling of liberation can be the ultimate turn on.\u00a0 Research suggests that being dominated from time to time is something a surprising proportion of people enjoy, it\u2019s just that most people are too afraid to admit it.<\/span><\/p>\n

A New Kind of Submissiveness<\/span><\/h2>\n

Sexual fetishes that leverage our natural desire to be controlled are diverse to say the least. But there is one form of domination that\u2019s gradually becoming recognised as the single most glamourous fetish of the 21<\/span>st<\/span> century – financial domination.<\/span><\/p>\n

One of the biggest points of appeal with financial domination is the way in which sexual activity (and forms of physical in-person contact in general) is out of the equation. The parties involved never come into physical contact with each other, which removes much of the stigma from the whole thing for many participants.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is why Findom is becoming an immensely <\/span>popular fetish<\/span><\/a> among those who are naturally submissive but too shy to admit it, to explore their kinks in a more conventional sense.<\/span><\/p>\n

How Does Findom Work?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Every dominatrix involved in Findom adopts a slightly different approach. An experienced Domme with more than a few <\/span>Findom stories<\/b> to tell, <\/span>Ishtarxxx<\/span><\/a> has amassed a small army of fans and followers over the past few years:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cIn return for your devotion, I will relieve you from the burden of decision, using you as I see fit for my entertainment and the entertainment of my friends. I will decide what is best for you, what roles you should be trained in, when you require humbling and when you will be rewarded,\u201d<\/span><\/i>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cAs you serve, I will dig deeper and deeper into the darkest parts of your soul, discovering your most hidden desires and bringing them to the surface, becoming a true mirror to who you are, the only person in the world with whom you can be completely honest.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

An interesting insight into how the whole thing works, but what exactly is in it for those who take part? Thousands of men are diving head-first into the whole Findom thing on a daily basis, seemingly with the expectation of almost nothing in return.<\/span><\/p>\n

In which case, where\u2019s the appeal?<\/span><\/p>\n

Findom Stories: Adam\u2019s Account\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

As with most things, the best place to head for a full disclosure is the mind of someone who\u2019s well and truly into financial domination. Adam – not his real name of course – explains why this particular form of escapism became his preferred form of <\/span>domination and sexual satisfaction<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cFor me, it\u2019s all about the fact that she\u2019s technically invading my personal space and taking control of my life in a way I can\u2019t do much about. I\u2019m not the kind of person who puts too much emphasis on wealth and I\u2019m definitely not rich, but money you work hard to earn is something really personal. It\u2019s also something you need to get by – it\u2019s like oxygen or blood, you know you\u2019re screwed if you don\u2019t have it.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cWhen she demands payment and starts threatening to blackmail me, I\u2019m genuinely scared. The adrenalin flows, my palms get sweaty and I get worked up. Then when I pay her, the feeling of relief is hard to explain, but it\u2019s like for that moment I don\u2019t have a care in the world and there\u2019s nothing I can\u2019t do.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cWhy this is sexy to me I\u2019ve no idea – maybe something hormonal or maybe I\u2019m just a nutcase! I really don\u2019t know, but what I do know is that there are a lot of other people doing exactly the same as me and they all get a kick out of it. It\u2019s a subject I\u2019ve researched the hell out of and it\u2019s good to know it\u2019s not just me.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cI wouldn\u2019t classify myself as bored, lonely or having any major issues with self-esteem. I just like trying things out that are different and that most people wouldn\u2019t get – this definitely ticks both boxes in a big way!\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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