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This issue worries most of the guys. Let\u2019s admit it \u2013 it\u2019s nice to get a match with a stranger you like, but it won\u2019t be of much use if you don\u2019t start communicating. Getting answers from each \u201cmatch\u201d is hardly possible, but if you never receive answers at all, don\u2019t despair \u2013 you just have to change your approach to it. So, what phrases are better to forget forever?<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. <\/b> \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Banal \u201cHello\u201d<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Do you understand that a girl will answer your \u201chello\u201d the same thing in 99% of cases and you still have to come up with a continuation of the dialogue? When you\u00a0<\/span>chat with single girls<\/span><\/a>, it is better to ask some questions right away or interest them in something. Then the chance that a woman will respond increases significantly. And this is especially true if we are talking about dating services \u2013 to win the competition, \u201cHello\u201d is definitely not enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. <\/b> \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Provocation<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      \u201cI saw this photo of you 5 years ago\u201d \u2013 some guys find such messages original, witty, and eye-catching. But it is more likely to cause negative rather than positive reactions. You registered on the site to communicate with interesting women and not offend them, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. <\/b> \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Invitation to meet<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        It is dangerous to go out with a guy from the Internet, texting only a couple of messages. And who needs this awkward silence? It is much better to see each other in person after several days of close communication and girls also understand this. Therefore, of all the options that you can text to a girl, the phrase \u201clet\u2019s go for a walk\u201d is definitely not the best one.<\/span><\/p>\n

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        1. <\/b> \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Vulgarity<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Some guys think that the best compliment for a girl will be a high rating for her shapes. \u201cHey, baby! You have beautiful shapes\u201d, \u201cMmm, what a nice body!\u201d \u2013 these are the very phrases that a normal girl would never answer. Do you seriously think she\u2019s waiting for you to appreciate her body? Most girls will mistake you for a horny teenager and blacklist you.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          1. <\/b> \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Too personal question<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            \u201cWhy are you still alone?\u201d, \u201cWhere do you live?\u201d, or \u201cTell me about your first love\u201d \u2013 it is at least impolite to ask too personal questions to a stranger. And you yourself, without knowing it, can touch on a topic that is painful for a girl and, thereby, you kill her mood.<\/span><\/p>\n

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            1. <\/b> \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Stupid jokes<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              \u201cAre you lost? Heaven is so far from here.\u201d It may seem funny to someone, but don\u2019t forget that a sense of humor is a delicate thing and it is extremely rare for two strangers to coincide. If this method seemed original earlier, then with the development of social media, such jokes don\u2019t seem original.<\/span><\/p>\n

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              1. <\/b> \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Too many messages<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                An overly annoying interlocutor can be blacklisted soon. Don\u2019t bother a woman with messages at three o\u2019clock in the morning and don\u2019t ask what she does every minute. Such an overabundance of attention will only hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

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                1. <\/b> \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Promises<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  It is normal that you choose among many girls. Therefore, you shouldn\u2019t pretend that everyone you text to is your ideal. Let\u2019s leave messages like \u201cWhen I saw your photo, I realized that you are my destiny\u201d because nobody believes such a phrase.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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