This one is for the ladies. We know that the majority of our readers here are men but you really need to pass this article to her. It’s for your own benefit. You know… as with the saying, “happy wife, happy life” or happy girlfriend, or happy friends with benefits. Whatever. The point is… She needs to cum. Multiple if possible. And orgasm can take away a lot of negatives from her. Stress (from you), irritability (again, from you), bad moods (caused by you). So yeah, if you are having a rough time getting her to cum, this one is for you (all you got to do is let her read this while probably giving her a good shoulder massage). And as my favorite character always says, “So let’s go…” Yes, my favorite is Zohan.
Let’s start with the most basic and the pretty much usual…
The Famous Cowgirl
Ladies, there’s nothing like being on top to make you feel in charge of your own enjoyment. You’ll be the one to control the speed, depth, and level of thrusting. So, go on top, drop yourself onto your lover, and begin moving up and down. If you want to increase your chances of having an orgasm through penetrative sex, this should be your go-to position because it provides the most access to external stimulation.
Pro Tip: The cowgirl position enables the ‘cowgirl’ to concentrate on what brings them the most pleasure. Not only can the rider access their clit, but so can their partner. By leaning forward in this sex position, you may feel “clit-to-pubic bone pressure,” which can aid the person in riding climax.
Now, instead of sitting, lie down and squeeze your legs together. Your spouse can still pump in and out as you grind against their body, boosting the chances of an orgasm.
And The Equally Famous Reverse Cowgirl
While the first is great, you can have more control with this one. Oh, and the view of your backside and ass will make fall under your spell more. You know how to do it; simply get on top like you would in cowgirl, but spin around so your buttocks are facing your lover. When you’re reversed, the angle at which they enter you makes it easier and more consistent to target your G-spot.
Pro Tip: Have your man (or your partner) bend their legs and place their feet flat on the mattress. To increase friction, rub yourself against their thighs. For our girl-on-girl readers, strap-on sex using a dildo allows you to enjoy positions such as cowgirl and reverse cowgirl.
Straddle That Motherf…
This position does not take much work. Make your spouse sit up properly as you straddle them, so you’re face to face. Instead of bouncing up and down, gently swirl yourself around and rock back and forth until they strike the wall of your G-spot multiple times. Lean back to better access the clitoris.
This position, like the cowgirl, allows you “to get your grind on” for as much pressure as you want. And, certainly, straddling your partner is an excellent technique since it allows you entire control. You can choose how slow or quick you want the movement to be for maximum pleasure.
Pro Tip: You can do variations like sitting all the way down and rocking your hips front to back. Imagine yourself sensually riding a rocking horse for this move. Alternatively, you can bend backward in a kneeling position and pump up and down, or alternate between 10 extremely shallow and 10 deep pumps, forcing your lips and lower thighs against your partner’s hips/pelvis.
Threesome With A Pillow
Who knew that simply placing a pillow under your buttocks could completely transform missionary work? Missionaries are boring and lethargic, but this one will keep things interesting.
Lay on your back, missionary style, and place the fluffiest pillow you have under your buttocks. This should elevate the entire lower half of your body off the bed, allowing for deeper penetration in missionary. Wrap your legs around your companion to add depth. This position is fantastic because of the increased curve of the pelvis it creates.
Pro Tip: When you lift your hips or ‘cat’ your back, you minimize the distance of your pelvis, making it easier to reach your G-spot. This position is also more comfortable on the body because the hips are one of our strongest and most sturdy parts. Grind those hips left, right, and around the planet to increase clit pleasure from body to body. If you want more control in this position, have your partner hold still while you move and grind on them, and vice versa, to see whatever combination of movements feels best.
The Folding Chair
This is another spin on the missionary and is a popular vocation for a variety of reasons. By elevating your body and folding it in half, you minimize the distance between your pelvis. You’re also in a hinge posture, so every time your spouse leans forward, your angle of elevation increases. If you have vaginal pain, you should probably avoid this position because there isn’t as much depth control.
Pro Tip: This position is ideal for getting the pelvic area moving because you’re basically moving like a folding chair, hence the name. It gives you more mobility while your legs are against boo’s shoulders. Movement in this position is a little easier than in a missionary position, for example.
Super Spooning
For this position, assume a standard comfortable spooning posture and let your spouse enter from behind. The closeness of this posture, along with the rigidity of your legs/genitals, makes it ideal for individuals who find greater movement painful. Stay still and work on minor hip movements while engaging your pelvic floor muscles on each other (yes, both of you).
Pro Tip: This posture is ideal for getting into the groove and increasing your natural lubrication levels. However, having lubrication around is not a bad idea. Also, utilize toys to spice things up.
The Infamous Prone Bone
Lie on your stomach, with your lover lying on top of your back. It should appear that you’re both about to do the worm. Your partner might either prop themselves up on their hands, forming a little push-up position or simply lay their stomach against your back. Now, elevate your buttocks so they may enter from behind.
This position allows for deeper penetration with minimal movement, as well as physical proximity and hard pressure from their body on top of yours. It’s also a really comfortable posture for both people’s hips.
Pro Tip: To create a pocket, wrap your hands over your vulva, palm on the pubic mound, and fingers along your lips. Grind, pulse, rub, and push to your heart’s content.
If You Want To Cum, Please Stand Up
If the bed is becoming boring, consider doing it without it. Oh, you know what I mean. No, not the sofa, not the table. About on the floor in front of the bed, while you move down to the bed’s edge and spread your legs. Your partner can enter you while standing, and the perpendicular angle will make your clitoris more apparent, making it simpler for them—or you—to touch it. Lift your buttocks slightly and lay one leg on your partner’s shoulder to get even deeper penetration.
Pro Tip: The height of your bed and partner will both be important in this situation. So try placing a pillow under your buttocks or using sex position furniture.